Designed for real dates

Less small
talk. More
sparks.

A dating app built around one number: how many real dates you go on this month. Reviewed profiles, a proposal-first flow, and a chat that stays quiet until you've agreed to meet.

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Reviewed
Every profile
Average
8 days to first date
Intent
Meet, don't chat
Mira, 29
Architect · Cobble Hill

“Slow coffee, loud dinners, long walks.”

  • Architecture
  • Natural wine
  • Film photography

The thesis

We built this differently.

Most dating apps are built to keep you on the app. Ours is built to get you off it — into a chair across from someone worth meeting.

  • 01Reviewed, not crowdsourced

    Every profile is checked by a real person.

    Photos, identity, and intent are reviewed before you're in. It takes 48–72 hours. It means the next person you see actually wants what you want.

  • 02Propose, don't text

    Start with a plan, not an opener.

    Pick a place and a time. They have 24 hours to accept. If they don't, we quietly cancel — no ghosting, no read receipts, no pressure.

  • 03Safety, quietly on

    A trusted contact, one tap away.

    Share the place, time, and a check-in with someone you trust — without the person you're meeting ever knowing. It's a friend in your pocket, not a panic button.

How it works

From hello to the table,
in a handful of days.

  1. 01

    Write the kind of profile you'd want to read.

    Six real photos, your intent, the things you actually love. We review it, then you're in.

    48–72 hrs
  2. 02

    Meet a small, hand-picked cast.

    A quiet feed of people who share your intentions and at least two of your vibes. No endless deck, no daily streak.

    Slow feed
  3. 03

    Propose a date — a real one.

    Pick a spot, pick a time. We suggest well-lit places nearby. They have 24 hours to say yes.

    24-hr hold
  4. 04

    Chat opens the day before. Save the rest for the table.

    A quiet thread 24 hours before the date — just enough to confirm logistics. The interesting parts happen in person.

    Day before

Who it's for

For people who are tired of typing,
and ready to show up.

No streaks · No super-likes · No read receipts

Safety, quietly

Tools that have your back — without being loud about it.

Every safety feature is one-tap, optional, and invisible to your date. None of them are shared. They only act if you act first.

  • Trusted contact
    Share the place, time, and a check-in prompt in one tap.
    On
  • Auto check-in
    We text you 30 minutes after the date starts.
    On
  • Mid-date exit
    A discreet button that ends the night gracefully.
    Ready
  • Photo & ID verification
    A small check means the person you see is the person you meet.
    Verified

Available soon

Your next real date
starts here.

Download Bites & Sparks. Write a profile worth reading. Propose the kind of night you'd want to show up for.

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Free · iOS 17+ · Android 10+